I’m on day six of Take10 and I found today that during the section where you let your mind be free, I had some flashes of images that I found quite disturbing and unpleasant. I suffer from anxiety and I’m not really sure how to cope with that. In fact, if I knew how too I don’t think I’d suffer from anxiety. I was really angry with myself and I felt that it spoiled this morning’s meditation. Any advice?
Also, could you give me a little guidance around the “rising and falling sensation”? I’m not exactly sure what you mean by that.
Hi, thanks for getting in touch. Of course, I’d be very happy to share a few thoughts.
Let’s start with the breath. So, as the body breathes it creates a rising and falling sensation. By this I mean the movement of the body. An easy way to discover this movement is to place your hand on your stomach, diaphragm or chest and observe the movement as the body inhales and exhales. Sometimes the movement is very strong, at other times it is a little more subtle, but it is always there.
The next thing is the sense of anger you experienced. This is very natural, but it’s worth considering how much you entertain the idea afterwards. Sure, we may not like the fact that we get anxious once in a while, but by adding anger and frustration into the mix, we are really just pouring petrol on the fire. Mindfulness is about observing thoughts and feelings without judgement or criticism. Instead, simply acknowledging the feeling, recognizing it is part of being human and understanding that all human beings experience something similar – even if it sometimes feels like we are the only one.
Finally, coming back to your very first question about disturbing images, this is nothing to worry about at all. In fact, I would even say it is something good, something positive. Generally speaking, as humans we tend to filter most of our thoughts. This is why the dream world (where our thoughts generally go unfiltered) often appears so bizarre when we awake in the morning. So, in that part of the exercise, when we let go completely, we are essentially dropping the filter, maybe for the very first time. At first this can sound quite scary, but it actually the beginning of something very special – sometimes refereed to as freedom of mind.
Imagine no longer being afraid of thought, no longer being resistant to certain emotions, instead just experiencing the mind, exactly as it is, no matter what thoughts arise (and yes, disturbing ones are not at all uncommon). That’s partly why that part of the exercise is so short to begin with, it’s like dipping our toes into the water. Over time everything settles down and we can simply relax as we let go. But give it time and be kind to your mind in the meantime.