4 completely un-materialistic gift ideas

Think of something they really like to do, and work out what their perfect day would be (it could be fishing, gardening, or going to a museum) and then spend it with them. While you’re with them that day, be as a present as you can. Set aside your work commitments and enjoy what you’re doing. Funnily enough, the memory of a day like this can last far longer than a material gift would—particularly if the recipient in question is someone you don’t see all that often.

A lot of restaurants will offer vouchers which you buy and give as a gift. Alternatively, if you’re feeling brave, you can even agree to go round to their house and cook for them on a night of their choice. What could be nicer than returning home to a meal from your own private chef? Make them a voucher that they can redeem with you in the future, and slip it into their card.

Buy them tickets for a museum exhibit, a concert, or throw a party in their honor. Put together a playlist of their favorite music, a menu of their favorite food and invite their favorite people. It’s a chance to love bomb them—to give a celebration of them.

There’s that old cliché about giving a man a fish and he’ll eat for a day ... I think that buying someone a couple of lessons in something can often be a really nice way to help them on a path they might otherwise feel indulgent taking for themselves. It might be learning the drums, learning to surf or learning car maintenance. Of course, learning to meditate is a life-skill that I’m particularly fond of. (And yes, we do sell gift certificates.)

If you're looking to adopt a fresh approach to the old festivities this holiday season, then starting a daily mindfulness practice is a great first step. You can download Headspace for free, and make today the day you commit to a quiet, peaceful and contented mind.