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(air whooshes) (computer mouse clicks) (serene music) ♪ Headspace Studios ♪ Hey there, it's Kessonga, and welcome to "Radio Headspace." Today is Tuesday, and today, I would like to delve into a topic that's close to my heart: expressing your unique self amidst the pressure of peer influence and the ubiquitous world of social media. Ever since I was a kid, I was the one that looked different, and looking back, it usually had something to do with my hair. (laughs) These days, I don't have that problem, being bald and all, but I remember in eighth grade, I asked my mother for cornrow braids, because I liked the way the character named Leroy looked on this popular show called "Fame." Everyone laughed and pointed at me when I first arrived at school. It was hella hard at first, but by the second week, the laughing subsided, and I actually started getting compliments. And then came high school, where I decided to get dreadlocks. But I didn't go to the barber or the hairstylist, like the kids do nowadays. I started them kinda Rasta style, and just twisted my hair a bit and let it lock on its own. I definitely got talked about at school when I did that, (laughs) and it took a little longer this time before people got used to it, but they eventually did. I have more examples in my life, but my point is that we are all unique in our own way, and even though it may be difficult at times, it's a beautiful thing when we allow ourselves to express it. (rain patters) In today's world, conformity often reigns supreme, and it can be extremely challenging to embrace and express our true selves. Peer pressure, societal norms, and the ever-present influence of social media can make it feel like we're constantly under scrutiny, pressure to fit into some sort of predefined mold of acceptability, but fear not, dear listeners, (laughs) for I may just hold the key to liberation. That's right, you guessed it: mindfulness. (laughs) But first, let's unpack the concept of unique self-expression. I truly believe that each of us is a masterpiece, a one-of-a-kind creation with our own set of talents, quirks, and perspectives. Yet, many of us hesitate to fully embrace our authenticity out of fear of judgment or rejection. We may suppress certain aspects of ourselves in an attempt to conform to societal standards or gain approval from our peers. Enter peer pressure, which can easily chip away at our confidence and sense of self-worth. Whether it's the pressure to dress a certain way, or act a certain way, or conform to a particular ideology, peer pressure can leave us feeling trapped in a cycle of inauthenticity. But the actual truth is you don't have to adhere to anyone's expectations or standards. Your worth is inherent, and your uniqueness is your greatest asset. That's something that my father would consistently tell me growing up. "Kessonga, you are different. Everyone...
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Andy PuddicomeHeadspace Co-founderMore about AndyA former Buddhist monk, Andy has guided people in meditation and mindfulness for 20 years. In his mission to make these practices accessible to all, he co-created the Headspace app in 2010.
Eve Lewis PrietoHeadspace Director of MeditationMore about EveEve is a mindfulness teacher, overseeing Headspace’s meditation curriculum. She is passionate about sharing meditation to help others feel less stressed and experience more compassion in their lives.
Dora KamauMeditation TeacherMore about DoraAs a meditation teacher, Dora encourages others to live, breathe, and be with the fullness of their experiences. She loves meditation’s power to create community and bring clarity to people’s minds.
Kessonga GiscombeMeditation TeacherMore about KessongaKessonga has been an acupuncturists, therapist, and meditation teacher, working to bring mindfulness to the diverse populations of the world.
Rosie AcostaMeditation TeacherMore about RosieRosie Acosta has studied yoga and mindfulness for more than 20 years and taught for over a decade. Rosie’s mission is to help others overcome adversity and experience radical love.

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